"Our desire to be the best which really comes from a deep sense of low self worth, because we all are already in our ordinariness, perfect. But because we don't feel that and we haven't been mirrored that back in our own childhood, our parents probably projected their own sense of lack onto us making us feel we like we have to do something to earn approval; rather than understanding that it is our birth-right, this striving to be the best is just a sure way to create crippling anxiety because you have to be something and what is the best, and who defines that? And it is a never ending, un-achievable goal because it doesn't exist...it is something that is in our fantasy."- Shefali Tsabary:
"The Conscious Parent with Shefali Tsabary: Learn simple techniques to rejuvenate your parent/child connection and change destructive patterns. This presentation will help you make positive, conscious change and will offer tools to use with children of all ages to shift energies to build nurturing and lasting relationships."
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"The child is here to usher the parents evolution and the parent's growth. "